he is sooo convinced you are the source of his pain. the D didnt make it go away so maybe marrying her will. Thats where the erasing you comes from,
Didnt you have a lawyer for your D?
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest