In your current situations, you've observed your own behaviors now (and how you need to start changing) and you've definitely been observing/investigating your wive's behaviors (both in how they're living, their attitudes towards your relationships/marriages and their attitudes towards you). Do any of you believe that your wives are having an affair or are on the cusp of the beginning of a potential affair. If you feel certain they aren't, then you wouldn't spend so much time here talking about it I have to assume.
I'm sure I've said it before and if I haven't I'll say it now, your marriages will probably end if you keep pretending that nothing is wrong and you continue to grovel for your wive's affection (phone calls, texts, gifts, money, being submissive and taking crappy cruel behavior from your wives, etc.) Remember that women have no respect for men who are afraid of them and that women are actually quite mean to the men who do.
yes rob ive been like a lost puppy, other people have seen it so my wife has definitley seen it, i could not, but now i do, i do see that deparate person and it dosent look good at all, im worth more than that, regards to an affair nothing in life is 100% but i feel she wont be, however i do believe the temptation has been there afterall her partying in the clubs with all the single girls, she may of had a one night stand who knows but im sure there aint an affair.
yes i have been pretending nothing is wrong, ive been carrying the burden of it all every last ounce of it, my wife has yet to experiance any loss, beacuse ive been and done everything i normally do for her, its not different for her, she is the one smiling and happy and going about life in an arrogant way, while im the one going through all of this and acting like nothing is wrong to her, so she cant see what she is actually doing,
