Been thinking about only believing half of what they do and all of what they say (hope I have that right!!!!) My H said to me in Jan "My love for you is dead; it will never come back"; in February "I don't feel he same way as you, I do not reciprocate your feelings"; "I care about you as a a person, the mother of my child and a wife and a partner who has been in my life"; when I said to H that I was going to stand for my marriage, by myself if I had to (ad remarked on how lonely hat would be) he replied "now you will know what it feels like to be all alone and unloved" He has been with OW (his development manager of his company) for the last 3 1/2 months. He will only speak t me in relation to our daughter. His actions and words deny any care or feeling towards me. Have read Sandis comments; Sandi, would be great to hear from you? Thanks everyone for your time; its so comforting to know there are others struggling to. Am trying to be in LRT and so far am sticking to it.