One question I have to ask you is this, what have you currently done about your situations: I'll use both you Beno & MakingIT. Have your wives legally separated from you, have they filed for separation or divorce? How long have you been separated/living apart?

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rob my wife has not legally separated from me nor has she asked for a divorce, she actually said she dosent want one, we have been apart 5 weeks now,