Thanks Ready for the kind words. Read your story and WoW! I applaude your efforts. I'm just wondering if I should just move on. He says he doesn't want to be a dad and sadly he spent the last 7 months telling his problems to my best friend because he said he couldn't tell me. I'm sad because I believe that if I had known that he felt he couldn't talk to me I probably would have mentioned counseling sooner to get someone to help us be able to communicate and I was robbed of that by my husband and best friend. She felt that she was helping him by talking to him and by helping him she was helping me, but I believe that in the long run this has ended up being something that could possibly have been changed. I just want to know everyone's opinion of what he is saying to me. I keep telling myself that he will change his mind, but his words and what he told my male friend on the phone today do not support my thoughts. Any ideas? Should I just move on and not even bother? I did tell him I want to be friends, but he told my male friend that he doesn't think I will be able to because I will always be wanting more. Is this a done deal?
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
