One of our mutual friends called tonight (my H's best man). He confirmed there was another woman he dated who wanted to move down to TX to be with him (2 years ago)... but my H's response was he didn't want her to move, didn't like her, and she wasn't the girl for him. But apparantely she moved anyways.... and ends up to the OW my H now wants to be with??? Our friend was completely shocked the OW did move to TX and also to the fact my H was sleeping with her the entire duration of our R & M.

It's been a lot to digest. My whole sitch was so confusing before and makes a lot more sense now that I seem to have the truth. However my H is still a mystery :-)

I am numb as to how I proceed at this point. I will continue to seek God's direction and pray for clarity as to how I move forward.... and what to do with our M.

Last edited by FitChik; 04/11/09 03:56 AM.
Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09