Gang. I need advice. Yesterday H calls me w/slight excitement in his voice. We might have an offer coming on our home w/in the next month. It would probably be the financial deal of a lifetime to make this kind of cash on our home. He was just as excited about another home the realtor told him about that was a steal, and becoming more of one each week. Gave me intricate details about it. Sounded like he wanted us to check it out.

Tonight i get home from vacation, use his computer to print something out, and stuck in the print queue is a listing of 3 bedroom condos for rent. I call him (he is @ grocery store) and calmly ask him if he is planning on moving out. He says, "No, not at all, why?". I tell him about listings. He says his friend came by on Wed and was looking for furniture online while H was in shower. Could have been him.

H is NOT that computer literate. I check history. The site was visited on Monday. Now, there are a couple of options other than being my H that did this, but I'm about to explode.

I'm not going to say anything further now.

Ideas? Suggestions?


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.