Am I doing the right thing?

[kjensen]

Queen is cool! Good Song.
Thinking about your wife following you room-to room...I do think, at least from what I know of my H, there is a childlike 'lost' quality to him that wasn't there before. In many ways H's emotionality, his over-the-top anger without restraint is very childlike-there are no dampers to his emotions like we develop as adults. It seems to depend on the setting...

My D11 had a huge emotional meltdown tonight. She knows my H 'likes' another woman(overheard a phone conversation)-she is mad I won't give her details. She is mad that she may have to live with her father some of the time. She is adamant that she won't talk to me, H, a counselor or anyone about how she feels-so it keeps percolating. Anyway, her anger reminds me of H's...over-the-top, not always rational, unrestrained. Its tiring! I worry about depression with her, but we'll see how things go. She does understand she explodes at me b/c she feels I can take it and won't leave-which I reinforce...
Holidays seem tricky..My H is coming over early Sunday to help me hide Easter eggs before the girls wake up. He said he'd stay for lunch if I wanted. Feels sad and weird-its these times I get upset that my family has disintegrated.

I hope you have a nice Easter weekend. It helps to focus on the kids.