I have the same struggle, my M difficulties started when my W's dad died, her sister contracted breast cancer, and my W was herself tested positive for the breast cancer gene - giving my W also a 70+ percent chance of contracting it. Suddently everything became intolerable.
I have therefore really been wondering as well if this is really MLC.
But then, as far as we are concerned, does it really make a difference? Do the actions we take really differ based on the "diagnosis"?
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.