A New Decade

[MsMelancoly]

Ah, Your cool in my book too Michelle! And Julia .... you already have that "cool girl" mastered

Ok, here's what this man said summarized: Cool Girls or cool women are women who naturally "get" the social & emotional dynamics that resonate w/men & make them feel like a relationship is fun, easy & works for them.

Also, cool girls don't whine, are funny & positive, non-controlling, have options so they don't feel left out if not invited. They don't force their opinions on men (ok I gotta work on that!), aren't afraid to be honest (don't know if our men can handle that!) And know how to handle their emotions & think before they speak.

Another summary of his, which is close to DBing: don't look for your love relationship as your main source of happiness & fulfillment. Work on developing other relationship interests & goals in order to be happy & fulfilled in life & love.

So what do you think??