My H called to let me know he is alive & well. He opened up more and there is yet more to the story.
States the OW he slept with was someone he dated from work in Maryland and she by "coincidence" moved to TX (and ended up in the same town at him). States he slept with her on & off the entire time we dated, after we were engaged, and even the month after we were married. States he is ILW her. He claims she knew about me and that we got married?? Also states she knows he has slept with 2 OW since deploying?? Not sure I believe this....
States he thought he was ILW me but was not. I asked why if he liked her so much (since she moved to TX to be with him) did he start dating me?? Why was it me he decided to marry when she was in TX the whole time? Just so confusing!!!!
Any thoughts?
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09