My Plan: -Always be working on staying detached and emotionally healthy-no rescuing behavior. -Low or no expectations, keep hopes in check. -Be pleasant and upbeat. -Listen more than I speak. Use Active listening/validation as needed. -No R/A/OW talk(this I have been doing well until yesterday-then just about R) -Show H through actions and NOT words, that I am forgiving and NOT judging him. -Do things for me and spend wuality time with my girls.
These are great goals to strive for--a balance of compassion, friendliness, boundaries, and self-care.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
