Same back at you!!! Hope you're having a good day today. I'm so tired--need to do our calls earlier in the day!!!
I just did 4 hours of walking and I've got rehearsal tonight and tomorrow, the play starts in 3 weeks, so prob. have to go most nights the next month...And fit in a move somehow!!! The weird thing is I'm busy and happy. Tomorrow I volunteered to help with an Easter Egg hunt for the kids at church--should be so fun!!!
Had a blast yesterday! Worked on the easter stuff all day though!!! I got my very own cell phone plan today! I feel so grown up! It's hot pink to match my VS shirt. Same # as before btw.
Worked my walking job today. H emailed me he was dropping the kids off at lunch and dropped them at the house. I didn't get his email until after dinner, so just blew that one off. Days without H are like a day with sunshine pretty much. When I dropped the kids off last night at the halfway point, he made a big point to like mess with the front bumper of my car (like it was dented or scratched or something but I didn't really see anything wrong myself). My thoughts were he cares more about the car than me for sure and sometimes even the kids I think.
OK, have 2 possibilities right now for renting. One is $600 3/1 which I could afford & shouldn't have any problems, but in a not great neighborhood and a trailer home. The other is a 4 bedroom 3 bath with jacuzzi outside and sounds wonderful and in good neighborhood close to everything we do, but it's $800 a month and I could do that for a couple months, but then if I don't get a good paying part-time job could get dicey. I was going to look at both this weekend. I'm still looking for a place cheaper than $800, but most are not in good neighborhoods or super tiny (500 to 800 square feet) so still working on that. Karen
So why don't you try for the cheaper one and see if you could get a roommate possibly. If it is close to everything, I am sure it would attract several people to maybe help you out. Just an idea since I don't know how comfortable you are with that.
We rented out our basement,it's finished but not super nice, a couple of times and it helped us and them. I've got my fingers crossed for you.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
You know how broke I am, trying to scrape together money for first/last deposit and prob. don't have enough for a moving truck. H tells me today, I don't think your check cleared yet that he gave me last weekend b/c there's no way he could have that much extra $$ in his account. Guess what--he does! I checked my online account and they deposited in there on Monday. I feel sick.
Oh, H is going to take D9 to an Easter art workshop tomorrow afternoon. I can't b/c I have rehearsal and work all day, so he said he would and I thanked him for that. I think that'll be interesting b/c some of my friends will be in the class most likely (how I found out about it). All very nice, polite people so they will prob. be nice and friendly to him I would think. His beard looked horrible today. It's even a little more scraggly than it was and lots of white hairs in it now too!
Amazing how much money you have when you don't pay your bills. If he is trying to do the "B" now too then he would probably be advised to not pay his bills.
Hang in there.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Still irritating that he's got so much $$$ no matter why. Well took my anger and turned it into positive, or tried to. I applied to 3 jobs at the same place though. Its teaching and supervising children and teens with developmental disabilities and mental illness (they have a group home).
I said in my cover letter I have 15 years of experience of children with developmental disabilities as a parent. They had 6 part-time jobs on their website, and I applied to the 3 that had weekend hours. I don't get my hopes up anymore, but would be a good job fit I think with my education and life experience. It looks like it has dental & medical even for part-time which I will need when the D is final. I know you'll all be happy when I finally get a permanent job--even I'm sick of this!!!
HappyEastereverybody!!!! Hope everyone will have a great day tomorrow!!!
Had rehearsal today!!! So much fun!!! Always a good time!!! Musical theatre is great for PMA, not so much for dating though!!!
Then my walking job. Came home and ran off to get more eggs (I like to have hundreds of course)! Came back and had just started stuffing the eggs and the kids get home. I left one of the bags of eggs out in the living room accidentally in my rush to shove all the evidence in the pantry, and I told D9 they were mine for Easter--and she found an empty bag of Kisses and I told her I had eaten them b/c I was hungry. Hey, she knows me not that hard to believe. And she just found one of the eggs I had already stuffed and says OH, gross, an egg from last year. I can throw out the candy and SHE DID!
H came in and asked me about the check and I told him it cashed a week ago. He said maybe it was a mixup in his bank or something, but he said they'll prob. figure it out. Yeah, right! Asked me to switch the kids night from the usual Tues. this week to Wed. I said I didn't know my schedule yet for the play, but would email him. Then he says I have a guy friend coming in town for the night. Maybe he thought if he said that I would be more inclined to agree or something than a hot date with OW??? But honestly doesn't matter to me, well much anyway. I just emailed him we can do the switch b/c I realized D9 comes with me anyway when I have rehearsal and plays with the other kids and she enjoys it anyway. Anyhoo, Happy Easter to you guys and hope the Easter Bunny is generous to y'all!!! Karen