I already did that 4 year age difference for nearly 21 years remember?? I think a couple years either side is just fine so I won't be chasing 20 somethings or trying by best Anne Bancroft impression. I can hear you all saying Dang!
I feel hopeful for some reason. If it isn't flirt guy now, it may be later. One just never knows and besides if you put all your eggs in one basket you just end up with a bunch of goo!!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
For my definite answer I will have to find out if S16 works tomorrow night and what time. I am his ride and ex has the 3 younger ones for the weekend after he gets off work. I am not going to clue in ex that I might be going, none of his business.
I have some votes for telling him ahead of time and some saying just show up, so that is my current dilemma. Personally I would like it if he just called and told me he was in town, want to get together sort of thing. So what is the difference?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Ok s16 didn't have to work tonight so off on my adventure I went. It took a little while to convince myself but I am so glad that I did. Things got a bit cleared up and he knows I take stuff personally even when he doesn't mean it as such.
Oh lord he his so much better looking than in his picture that he sent me. The entire time we were talking I swear he didn't take his eyes off of me. Maybe he liked the color of my sweater??? He was nice. While I am in the process of "House Cleaning", he is staying. He was sick and sounded awful and said he could only give me a few minutes but gave me nearly an hour.
I think this probably just made me more attracted to him and I don't know what effect this had on him, but I will just let this set for a while.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I'm glad it sounded like it worked out well. I do think it's his turn next time though!!! Past time! You know I want you to find someone that is crazy in love with you--you deserve that!!! Karen
I would also like to have someone that I have spent the time and energy with to build a solid foundation with. Who doesn't want someone to chase after them? But I want to build this right now. I believe we are worth the time and effort to give it an opportunity. Sorry if that disappoints you but I don't want to just have the rush, I want to build it.
Maybe nothing will come of this, I don't know for sure but it isn't the feeling I get.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Thanks! You too. I am trying to lose weight so I can proudly say that I haven't raided the candy. Ex has them this weekend and S16 has to work yesterday and today and tomorrow(during in-service) so at least he should make some money. It is strange not having him here all day.
I tried to work on some plumbing issues but I don't have a whole lot of upper body strength so will probably have to find someone to help. It will cost me now but save money and water in the end.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I think a couple years either side is just fine so I won't be chasing 20 somethings or trying by best Anne Bancroft impression. I can hear you all saying Dang! 
Karen