(((Lisa))) Long time no speak! We shall have to catch up really soon. I was going to text you and ask if you are around on Monday but I see not. Have lots of fun.
In answer to your question, the changes I have made are all steps in reducing guilt as I think this is a major issue with h. I agree patience is the key and there isn't a great deal I can do however these changes have made a difference. There wasn't a great deal wrong with our marriage, it was more circumstance, however most of the damage seemed to be done after he left so I am working on getting away from being that person and being the greener grass. I think this can't do me any harm either. I'm not expecting huge leaps but I figure it can't help to maximise my chances and be positive.
(((Mishka))) I'm not really sure what is wrong with my toe. I think it might be a ganglion as I have one on my wrist, nothing serious but it is painful. I'm going to the doctors after the bank holiday weekend
(((Ms M))) You are so right about maybe it showing him and me that we can work together. Hopefully eh? Like all DBing it is so counter-intuitive eh? It's a strange old world!!
I went to see The Boat That Rocked at the cinema tonight which was good fun and went shopping with my sister. I bought series 1 of Heros on DVD so I thought I might make my way through that over the weekend!