I'm more with the let's wait a few months. My thing is what kind of person would date a married man or woman? And for example my D is taking a looong time and prob. a few more months and I'm just looking forward to getting healthier and happier until the D. So you can use that time; it's not like you're not living your life. Plus, I think I would have a hard time doing that, although I know some here do that. Plus, isn't that what they all say? The M is over so we can date? It isn't really over until it's really over though...but I can also understand it's a tough situation; so I'm supportive for whatever happens... Karen
