Thank you for your posts, they are most appreciated.
I thought I would just ignore it, and if I cannot do so in a few days, I will send a short e-mail.
What makes me so sad is that XH tries to use my good nature at his advantage. He knows exactly that I care about him and tries to use that in order to get what he wants.
However, the thing bothering me a bit is that I would never forgive myself if something really did happen to XH because of him not having a car. But I also thought that it might not even be true at all that he has a motor bike and just writes it so that I would give in. Who knows, he has lied to me so often that I cannot tell anymore what is true or not. And as you said Snodderly,
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It's not you fault he's living where he's at. He's a big boy and needs to learn that every action has a consequence to it.
- exactly, it is his decision to live where he is and he can move if he wants to.
I had a good day despite all of this. It was a sunny and warm day again and I met a GF at my favourite restaurant for an ice cream. Afterwards we went for a long walk. Of course, we were talking more or less about only one subject. She also has problems with her H who has a "week-end lover" but still lives at home! It is so sad that almost every marriage has problems these days!
Thank you again for your continuous support and I wish you all happy Easter.
