To date, or not to date... life is fun again !

[Cinderellaman]

Nope, never went on my date... the guy had something come in between... that's ok.

I wanted to come and post because D10 was talking to me today...she said she crawled into bed with her dad this morning, and as they were cuddling, he said to her..."I wish I could wake up like this every morning"

Then at breakfast he said to the kids..."I'll miss you guys today...it's such a shame that we can't spend more time together".


There was a time when I may have jumped with joy at this... and thought...'yes, that's the consequence of leaving us...' but today, something totally different went through my mind - and heart... I felt bad for him, sorry even...I felt sad that he wasn't seeing his kids grow up, that he couldn't cuddle them as often as I can, that he gave so much up without realizing how much he'd miss them, and it has saddened me...

Then D10 said to me "one day, mommy, he's going to regret it..." I asked her if she really thought so... and she said "YEP" "One day he will !!!"

I feel bad for H. I empathize with him because as I've said many times before... even though he got his ow, he didn't get the best part of the deal in all of this....

Thanks for reading... take care xxx