The D isn't final yet but I'm going to push for it next week. The ex emailed and mentioned she was having anxiety problems and was on new meds along with still going to weekly therapy. She still "worries" about me but I don't care. She is taking the OM to visit her family in NM which should be good for a laugh. I'm sure most with think he's her father at first and wonder where I am (they all liked me).
I started seeing someone new. It's only been a couple of weeks but she is just what I need right now. Parts of me gets excited then other times I feel guilt since I had been faithful for 7 years and it's a hard habit to break. It's like I keep forgetting I'm single and can do anything I want and not be judged for it.
Once the D is done and the house is sold I don't plan on contacting the ex ever again. As I see it, she doesn't deserve to talk to me. She will have to live the rest of her life knowing she destroyed a good marriage by cheating on her husband and pursuing a married man. I'm glad I don't have that on my conscience.
Last edited by RobD70; 04/10/0907:43 PM.
Me:38 W:40 Bomb/EA 03/08 Recon twice 1/09 W files for D Story