Hi Bluerain...thanx for the response. At least you got some satisfaction from being able to tell and be anonymous. I wish I could. Think about it all the time. I get angry knowing she is still living her life, even though she's unhappy, and not paying any consequences for what she did with my H.
I don't know if we are rebuilding or its all just an act. Like I said he has financial concerns so he may be playing the part because he can't afford to get a place of his own. Was doing good the past few weeks with things looking more positive, but then realized he hadn't worn his wedding band in 7 days and it really got to me. I asked him about it last night and he got upset. So I guess all the positives just went right out the door. I totally over analyze everything as well so I know what you mean.
I appreciate you keeping up with my story and for the advice. If I can help you at all, please let me know. Its nice having another person to talk to that can relate...especially being military and all. Do you have a thread on here and if so how do I find it? Would like to read your story as well if that's ok.
