Ew, My H is even in virginia on TAD. Go slash his tires for me will ya? the motorcycle ones, theyre really expensive!
I went to a psychic too. She told me that this relationship was over. I have put a lot of thought into the things she said and I wonder if they dont feed off of your energy somewhat, if they truly are that sensitive, maybe its hard to filter out the energy that you are projecting and whats legitimate. I smudged my house after the last time H left, it felt and smelled better, and I still carry around a piece of rose quartz with me.
Has he ever talked to you about this kind of thing? Even when you were brand new, did he tell you all about his day? And have you ever been interested before? Do you know anything about his job, or coworkers? Maybe you can ask specific questions to get him talking. Can you initiate the sexy talk? Maybe just start by talking about massage, it seems a little less scary.
If he cant make it up to you, but you still want to continue this, you may have to just let it go, maybe therapy can help you with that. Maybe every time you start to think about it pinch yourself, hard. Its called thought stopping. You can google it to find out more. He might not be willing to admit that it was wrong because he is very ashamed of it, and its easier for him to deal with your anger than it is to deal with his shame.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
