"...Even more dramatically, the researchers also found that two-thirds of unhappily married spouses who stayed married reported that their marriages were happy five years later. In addition, the most unhappy marriages reported the most dramatic turnarounds: among those who rated their marriages as very unhappy, almost eight out of 10 who avoided divorce were happily married five years later..."
(the article mentions nothing more of adhd - it just happens to be published on an adhd site)
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"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
I believe it. But unfortunately, our spouses who have left wouldn't, especially when they're 'in the fog'. I'm committed. Whatever happens, I want to know that I never gave up, and stayed committed to my wife, my marriage, and preserving our family.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
I wish my W could find a way to agree with the article. Last time she gathered that I had hope, she said that it was another example of how I don't take what she says seriously since she already told me there was no hope.
