yes make sure you think before you act, if you get an email walk away and think about it do something to take your mind off it, also be careful not to turn all the friends against her beacuse it will make it even harder for her to come home to you, all my friends and both sets of families are talking to both of us, they side with me but they dont tell her that, they are doing it for me beacuse they know it will be hard for her to come back if they do