beno, keep at it bud. I had a moment where I slid back yesterday myself with an email that I sent to the W. I regretted pleading for her to come over and made myself promise I won't instantly send her another response. I will take some time and think before I act.
My W is also blaming me for having the circle of friends. Our friends were very intertwined. She chose not to go to them when she needed them and even some of her friends feel betrayed that they had no idea that she was thinking of pulling out. I just have to tell myself that she chose to do things the way she did. She will have to live with her consequences of her actions and decisions and I will live with mine.
Rob!!!!! I have to second beno's accolades man..... You have been a life saver with your logic and reasoning. I have read and re-read your advice several times. Thank You!
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