Rooting for you, remember, no R talk unless she brings it up, just make her see how fun it would be to be home again. Nice relaxing atmosphere, what are you going to watch? Chick flick?
By the way, maybe you should not do the dishes or clean up at all tonight, let it sit until she leaves or the next morning, show her that stuff does not bother you but do not bring it up, just let her see it.