Divorced - It's only a piece of paper but I am sad

[ACJ]

TL I am a very confrontational person (perhaps that's why I find myself here) but if it were me I would do exactly this:

What I would really like to write is that he is NUTS! That he spent all the money with his women and now wants me to give up some of my share. And what he said to a mutual friend regarding me not getting anything. His actions were his decisions. HE made the bed so HE has to lie in it!

IMO it's time your XH (and mine) heard some home truths.

However a better way may be to follow Snodderly's advice and just delete the email. It depends on whether you think either action will make him stop this horrendous onslaught of projection or whether it will perpetuate it.