I had a nice talk with my W this morning, going over day to day stuff, nothing Heavy. Divorce came up, and i asked her to go to a counselor first with me before we did the divorce. She said no way, She wants to be on her own for awhile, and that she doesnt feel the same way about me anymore. I let her know that i was moving back into the area pretty soon, she didnt have much to say about that other then i couldnt stay at the house, eventough she isnt living there. She sounds pretty serious about the divorce but she hasnt even checked into a lawyer yet. Am i some kind of fallback plan? Or do you think she means business? I told her that we didnt have anything to lose by talking to a MC, i dont know what to think.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
