SC you are getting good advice. Call only if it's an absolute emergency. Your h has to be the one to call you.

I know it feels like forever when you don't hear from them, but right NOW it's the only way.

Forget the card for now. Your h may very well be that same person, but he's hidden away for now.

Have a Happy Easter!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"