WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 7

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One other thing she talked about is that she is still hurt and angry.

I think we expect them to get over their hurt and anger a lot sooner than they are able to!

I know that but it has been almost 3 months. I'm would have guessed it would have eased somewhat. I guess the weekly counseling of rehashing the past just kept it going. I also know when I backslide when we talk sbout the parenting agreement and divorce related issues, we would wind up talking about the past hurts so that didn't allow her to heal either

I truly hope the seperation will give her the time and sapce to heal so we can be together again. It has been so long, even before the bomb, but I just didn't notice. I was so distracted about kids, work, and house that I lost my best friend along the way

I hope I our paths lead back together again. I miss her already.

I will be strong. I will survive and thrive. For me. For my boys. Hopefully for my wife.