Episode IV: A New Hope (?)

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ugh,

Called to talk to boys last night after not hearing a word from them. Got STBX's voice mail, just left a message that I'd like to talk to them.

Moments later s10 calls, still trying to figure out his suprise, he won't let up.

Then there is all this yelling and screaming in background the whole time. I ask him what in the world is going on, he says S12 is being "in one of his moods".

I constantly hear STBX and OM yelling at him to stop touching the eggs and re-arranging them. Hello! he's a special needs child, he fidgets with things when he's excited! Their eggs not fine china!!!

I ask S10 several times to put him on the phone, but apparently S12 just didn't want to talk to anyone. Finally after enough screaming I tell S10 to put mom on the phone. She gets on, attitude central and I simply ask why are you yelling at him so much and especially why is OM yelling at him, she says she's not going to "waste her time argueing" about how things are dealt with in her house. I say fine, goodnight and hang up.

She is going to to be the victim of her own creation. It is my sincere hope that she attend her parenting session tommorow SOBER and with a clear mind so that she may see first hand the poisinous enviornment our children are living in there. And most certanly she'll understand it that I have no choice but to forcefuly remove them from that enviornment.

They are being so hostile to one another those boys. Sure, they are siblings of close age and I fully understand some rivalry, but this is getting out of hand and they can only be learning it from the surroundings they live in.

Sad, truely sad.