A few months after my W and I were out of MC she said the same thing. I agreed we went every week and the hurt was brought out but we both realized we should have told the C that we didn't want to talk about the past but how to move forward. I'm not sure I'll get the chance to do MC again but if you do maybe that's something you and your W should make sure the C knows.
I wish my wife would have said something earlier as well so we could have changed directions/approach. I was getting tired of talking about the past as well. Guess this has been part of our problem, we were both doing something that we didn't want to but we jumped into each other's head thinking that was what the other wanted to do. At least we spoke up know. My wife did say that she would go to another one.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
