When she's "trying to get to you." What does that mean? Are you missing her attempts to reconnect? Or do you feel it is malicious?
Makes a HUGE difference.
Figure out what I'm asking when I say "what if it's both" ? I think you'll find that intriguing.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."