That's annoying about Messenger- I found some information from a Canadian clinic on DCA that had treatment/dosing regimens on it that they've tried on their patients. I'll see if I can find it again, but will do that on Monday (the info was at work) and mail you.
I agree that you can't stay in this situation for years, and I'm glad you're getting there with your own decision. Love is indeed, a decision, as they say.
