XH wrote – not to wish me happy Easter but to try again to manipulate me into getting some of the money I will get! He writes that since he cannot afford to buy a car he has to ride a motor bike in the rain which is very dangerous and it's a matter of time before he has an accident. I should prove to him that I care by letting him have some of HIS money and not just by writing that I care.
Since I am not very subtle in writing I would appreciate some help from anybody in this.
I would like to write that I am sorry he is in that situation but why does he have to stay where he is during the rainy period? Why does he not just move to where it will be dry? That he just received the proceeds of some other sale which surely would buy a cheap car if he does not want to move!
What I would really like to write is that he is NUTS! That he spent all the money with his women and now wants me to give up some of my share. And what he said to a mutual friend regarding me not getting anything. His actions were his decisions. HE made the bed so HE has to lie in it!
All he wants is make me weak so that I give in and say yes to what he wants. I will never understand him in a million years that he threw his nice live away just to live like he does!
