all so true rob... your probably right about pther signs to maybe there was some 6 months a year ago??? maybe she was reaching out for help from me and i didnt notice, doh. its wierd how we sit back and can see things when they leave but not when there here, ive done an awful lot of thinking like im sure everone does and i see clearly now, i will learn how to deal with this situation, i will crash sometimes, but i know i will give it my all,
one thing thats confusing me is if it is a MLC? do i sttill deal with it the same. ie: darkness, be mysterious, etc etc all the things you have said to do? or do i tread a little bit more careful? there is one more thing. i planned a trip day out with my kids and my wifes sister and her hubby and child, i did not include my wife in this and didnt tell her, she found out yesterday about this and when i spoke to her she brought up the subject saying, " nobody told me your plans, first i heard was in a conversation with my mum " it sounded like she was a bit angry at the thought of us all enjoying a day out without her, i could be wrong but i felt it.
another thing she did she went over in detail her last weekend whereabouts. what she did, were she went, who she was with,time she was home. not boasting about it, i think she was trying to tell me please dont think im out loving every minute of it, it was ok but bit boring to, and telling me she was home early so i wasnt with any guy, it was like she was telling me you dont need to worry about me, im just having some fun and im not interested in other people, it was wierd not sure if ive read it wrong? maybe i have but there was definitley something in her voice,
