Hey K.. ditto Jeff!! We are all getting none of it around here.. we should rename this the Celibacy Boards or something.

I can see that you would want to go on your own.. but perhaps you could have said it in a nicer way? Like T said? Or did it just come across as 'flat' and disinterested the way you typed it? Perhaps you could've said, that would have been lovely to all go together, I would really like that, but because I wanted to spend the whole day there, thats just not going to be possible because of yuor work commitments... like, let him know you WANTED him to come, but its his fault he cant ?

But I suspect you didnt want him to come anyway from the way you are describing your NO connection.

Its not just H thats getting the last chance.. you are too, this man may leave your life if you two carry on like this. I still think it sounds like you are freezing him out, becuase you are resentful (like you never really answered me and Michelle as to why you DONT call him and chat.. or why when you see him, you dont make conversation... you just say, you didnt talk... but then is that his fault, yours or just a bit of both??) but as I said before.. I dont blame you that you are.

Just as long as you are ok with the way things are heading...