I'm so sorry B. If your H was a responsible person, that would be one thing, but he has proven otherwise. I am sure he won't do anything to purposely put her in harms way, but I can't say he won't be observant of everything that is happening, and judge properly. We will all be praying of K, and asking the Lord to protect her in his hands. The Lord will watch over her.

Have you asked your H specifically "Is this what you truly want?" Are you totally opposed to seeing how comfortable you feel watching the 3 kids while OW is working first, so you can be better prepared for K?"

IDK. I'm thinking that even though the courts have said this, you H can still make a decision to wait too right? if he agreed to.

I'm really sorry. like you said, it could be way worse, and I've heard of way worse stories. So don't let this bring you down, you just give K the best of the best when you have her. I know you will.

((((B)))

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."