Do you want her number or e-mail so you can b*tch her out in Greek?
She will get hers in time. I hate that fact as she is the mother of my beautiful baby and we had 12 years together, but there is nothing I can do but sit back and let her destroy herself over time.
D is hurting. Tonight, she was snapping at me and I asked her if she was upset w/Daddy and wanted to talk about anything. She said she doesn't like it that "mommy" and I aren't together anymore and she said she thought it was my fault we were apart (because that is what she was told by XW).
So, we talked. I told her it takes two people to make a marriage and two people to break it, and "mommy" and I are both at fault. I told her I didn't want to be unmarried and I tried all I could to keep us together. I said sometimes people can't stay married and I miss being w/her everyday, I miss our house, I miss the other dog, and I miss having a family (notice the omission).
I told her I'd always love her and I'm here for her to talk or for whatever she needed at all times. She cried a bit and I held her until she fell asleep in my arms.
I hate seeing her in pain. I know it will be better for her in time, but now she's so confused and in pain. XW's decisions and words have done more harm to our baby than she'll ever realize.
