a quick update....... spoke with H last night about Easter access for our daughter. he is in a despising mode with me at the moment and was ringing from OW house. I am trying to be as facilitating as possible but am not agreeing to some of his proposals about our D re childcare for the next week. I was also sent a letter yesterday from his solicitor accusing me of not playing fair and reasonable in the refusal at this stage to be meeting with him and both our solicitors to move things forward quickly to a resolution, it has been only 2 1/2 months since my H walked. It feels so raw and I feel insulted that he has thought so little of our ten years together and that he finds me so indispensable. H has also asked for an adjournment of the safety Order hearing on the 17th. I am starting to get angry now; but also wanting to keep that all in check. Is this what happens when someone doesnt love you anymore or is it that he is in crisis? Please help.......