waw after 13 years

[Mountain_Biker]

Rob - I have learned a lot from you and my struggles on my own thread. I am connected to beno and Making_It as my sitch is all too similar.

My question to you... Are you saying to confront the EA (who knows PA) head on with her? From things I have read here/book seems like doing that I need to be prepared for a death sentence. Am I still not getting it? I know her too well and know if I do that now it will be over.

I have been detaching and am getting how to do that and not give up (thanks PearlHarbr). This is about my dignity. I have to walk in my shoes. Me and Me alone! No empathy needed.

Hoping not to hijack either, but that this helps all of us.