DB is great for the WAS issues and the distance, but does not address the EA very effectively. "Not Just Friends" addresses the Affair.
It seems from the experience on the boards here that the EA has to stop before the DB efforts can work. I did not really understand from your sitch description whether the EA was still ongoing and whether your H is still in active contact with OW.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
