Actually divorce would not take long at all. We have already discussed the details and have agreed to a non-contested divorce. We've already split assets and agree on custody/child support. Just need to sign the papers and in two months we will be divorced. I'm in Texas, they make it as easy as pie.
This is the problem, she knows how easy it would be for me to get a divorce. If I really was going to "move on" and not wait for her, then I would file. So, the fact that I am not pushing for the divorce proves to her that I'm willing to "wait" around. I don't need to tell her I'm going to wait, my inaction is already telling her that.