WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 6

[confusedinpa]

I had been torn between the Mr. Nice Guy behavior vs. having her struggle which may strengthen her resolve to stay away.

Which part of the battle do you control? Focus your efforts there.

That's very insightful. The only thing/person I control is me so that is what I need to focus on.

I guess I need to decide what I want.

I don't want her to leave and her leaving is her choice.

We will each need to do what supports our choices.

Did I get that right?

Thanks for such a quick response.