I just talked a little with H on the phone. He said he had no immediate plans of filing. He will not "surprise" me and said that we would talk.........He's being evasive, but then he also said that the bankruptcy might require some kind of "legal seperation" which we knew. I told him that I was concerned with loosing my benefits, especially with the way things are at my job, and that since neither of us plans to re-marry any time soon, and it would behoove us both to not split the assets at this juncture, he agreed that if we are able to "hold off" on the D, he was OK with that. (Hope he means it)
S18's best friend has admitted to taking the DVDs and jewelry. But says he "lost" the ring........I asked S if this teaches him anything.......like that maybe his judgement isn't the best, because BF is the one that he said he knew he could absolutely trust!! He does seem disgusted by the whole thing. I hope he's learned a lesson.......... I told S if BF won't get the ring back to me, I am calling to file a Police report.....
So tired.......going back to bed......probably going to miss Deep water Aerobics....
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
