She has said that she needs help to get this done quickly. I do not want to help. I feel that would not be the right thing to do. She needs help packing and moving things. I don't see doing that. Anyone have comments on that?
She's not going to change her mind while we are at this point of the journey. I can't see her giving up quickly then once she has struggled so hard to actually leave
She never responded to my email - I did expect that. I'm actually stressing about going home and finding out what else has been moved. It is hurtful but I know I must detach from what she is doing.
I need to get back to getting a life. I had a good lunch with my friend, although we spent most of the time just getting her caught up on my situation. She really understands my side as she has had similar issues with her husband not understanding her. She had struggled with the same issues, but unlike my wife, she was able to stand her ground and get her point across. I wish my wife had that same resolve.
I do have a phone call with a recruiter today for a job about 75 miles away. I'm not really looking to leave my current job, but it does offer an opportunity to escape and start fresh in a new state/city. I'm not that excited about it as it will make it harder for me to see my boys and will certainly destroy any chances of getting back to together (assuming there is any left).
I am thinking back to the conversation my wife and I had this morning. How we both were at a loss of what to do. We are both working for a different outcome so we can't work together to reach a common goal.
I know what I need to do is keep working my 180 and getting a life. I need to detach from what my wife is doing, I can't control that. So is anyone in the Philadelphia area that want to help me get a life?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
