Quote: why can I not go to him and greet him cheerfully without fear when he comes home????????
there is no reason...so why don't I???
well LL get over your fear of rejection and greet the man....heck run with the kids to greet him!
so that's the new plan.
throw caution to the wind.
I read this and it sounds exactly like me. I was the same way I wanted to be at the door to greet him when he came home from work everyday, to give him a hug and ask how his day was, but I never did. I was afraid or just plain lazy and this is something he would have loved for me to do. It's definitely something I need to work on and even now that he's not here, when he does come over I have great big smile for him and make it a point to say Hello. At some point the hug will come, also. I'm learning this from my son. When dad comes over, he's the happiest little boy in the world, his smile lights up and he runs and hugs him!!
