Need advise and support - desperately

[Jerri]

"What's your H's true character like? I mean, is easily influential by people like his sister? Do you think his true self will come out of all this?"

His true character????? Hmmmm he's always been pretty gullible about people - and yes easily influenced by his sister and BIL. Course he gave them $40K last summer as they were in dire straits (sister and BIL have a high-spending lifestyle without the income). Since he started making a lot of money - well that "buys" a lot of things, including people doesn't it? And he is spending in a big way.