there is no doubt it's a good thing...well most of the time..depends on where it is comming from.
when my h first left he did initiate a few times..and I of course accepted...but then he decided it wasn't fair to me and stopped...stopped everything..I didn't even get the obligatory kiss everyone else did when I'd see him .
anywho...
deciding that perhaps I am expecting too much from h....
why can I not go to him and greet him cheerfully without fear when he comes home????????
there is no reason...so why don't I???
well LL get over your fear of rejection and greet the man....heck run with the kids to greet him!
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