i think my original point to shiny was that i don't think i would be "piecing" my marriage together and so belong in this forum until i knew in my heart that i was actually PIECING - and that wont come until i feel that we are doing this together - and then the point i see us working on it together is the act.
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ok...but i like your question here
Quote: if your goals all lead up to the act then what after the act is all I'm asking?
well ALL my goals don't lead up to the act, i haven't really focused in on "what happens after we ml" - my goals right now are "what can i do to make myself more desirable to my husband"
i haven't crossed any of my smaller goals in that regard yet, so i am not even focusing in on what happens NEXT...LOL
thanks ll for taking the time to walk me thru this
