but, what if you tried not to put so much emphasis on the act...and just looked at the progression of the r itself for what it is. Is it possible for the r to get to where you want it before the act happens...is it possible to know that you and h are working on it with out the act? if your goals all lead up to the act then what after the act is all I'm asking?
I understand where you are comming from...I'm just trying to understand where it is you are going.